Before I came in to Montrose Manor, I didn't really know who I was and what I was doing. I only had this impossible image of the person I wanted to be. I was very unhappy, isolated myself a lot and had no real joy in life. I came to Montrose to leave my eating disorder and to go into recovery. This place brought me much more than just that. I learned so much about myself, about my relationships and I really started living again thanks to this place. I will never forget what Montrose Manor has done for me and I hope more people suffering from an eating disorder find the strength and courage to admit themselves here. A true magical place. Sabine (Cape Town)
Before I came in to Montrose Manor, I didn't really know who I was and what I was doing. I only had this impossible image of the person I wanted to be. I was very unhappy, isolated myself a lot and had no real joy in life. I came to Montrose to leave my eating disorder and to go into recovery. This place brought me much more than just that. I learned so much about myself, about my relationships and I really started living again thanks to this place. I will never forget what Montrose Manor has done for me and I hope more people suffering from an eating disorder find the strength and courage to admit themselves here. A true magical place.
I came into Montrose desperate and wounded by my eating disorder. I was relieved that I was finally able to get help. I was scared but motivated to recover. The first few weeks were difficult as I struggled to share what my troubles were but the team continued to persevere and eventually, I started to trust the process. Some of the things I've learned about recovery is that recovery is for everyone, it's non-judgemental and it is always ready to welcome me with open arms. It requires hard work and teamwork. I cannot do recovery alone. My advice to newcomers and those still suffering is to be as honest as possible so that you can be helped and supported in your healing journey. This was not easy to do at first but the more I did it, the easier it became. I'm grateful that I was given, and gave myself the opportunity to face the destructive voice in my head, dig deep into myself and learn to cope with my feelings in healthy ways. I'm thankful that I could do this with a community that were brave enough to trust, risk and share their experience and hope. After seven weeks of the programme, I have a much better understanding of my eating disorder, underlying issues, and tools to help me move forward in recovery. I appreciated the carefully thought out balance of lectures, therapy and exposure sessions and time set aside to process my thoughts and feelings on my own and with others. This would not have been possible without the care and compassion shown to me by the team, the staff and my fellow residents. I'm coming to believe that I can love again, not just those around me but most importantly, love myself. I think the only way that I can thank Montrose without saying "thank you", is to enjoy the freedom that comes with recovery by being present in life, sharing my joys and struggles at Aftercare and letting go of my eating disorder. Nicole (Cape Town)
I came into Montrose desperate and wounded by my eating disorder. I was relieved that I was finally able to get help. I was scared but motivated to recover. The first few weeks were difficult as I struggled to share what my troubles were but the team continued to persevere and eventually, I started to trust the process. Some of the things I've learned about recovery is that recovery is for everyone, it's non-judgemental and it is always ready to welcome me with open arms. It requires hard work and teamwork. I cannot do recovery alone. My advice to newcomers and those still suffering is to be as honest as possible so that you can be helped and supported in your healing journey. This was not easy to do at first but the more I did it, the easier it became. I'm grateful that I was given, and gave myself the opportunity to face the destructive voice in my head, dig deep into myself and learn to cope with my feelings in healthy ways. I'm thankful that I could do this with a community that were brave enough to trust, risk and share their experience and hope. After seven weeks of the programme, I have a much better understanding of my eating disorder, underlying issues, and tools to help me move forward in recovery. I appreciated the carefully thought out balance of lectures, therapy and exposure sessions and time set aside to process my thoughts and feelings on my own and with others. This would not have been possible without the care and compassion shown to me by the team, the staff and my fellow residents. I'm coming to believe that I can love again, not just those around me but most importantly, love myself. I think the only way that I can thank Montrose without saying "thank you", is to enjoy the freedom that comes with recovery by being present in life, sharing my joys and struggles at Aftercare and letting go of my eating disorder.
I still remember the first day when I came to Montrose. I was terrified, and although when I arrived, I was welcomed by two very kind nurses that made me feel very comfortable, I didn't trust the team or the process and desperately wanted to go back home. After a while I got connected more to the community and I still remember that I was sitting on the couch by the fireplace and thinking: ''I actually like it here and feel at home''. That gave me a very warm feeling. I can now say that this was my best decision ever to come here. This place is so amazing. I never felt alone, even in the beginning. There are always the nurses you go to, to cry, or to just ask for a hug or to just tell your struggle. The counsellors are very professional and really know what they are doing and how to treat each person differently in order to get them into the best recovery. Even the kitchen staff. They are there every day and put so much effort and time to give us the best quality of food. I can tell myself that after my 8 weeks treatment here, I'm not there yet but I made a huge step closer to my normal life. It's time that I will live my life again and not let my life be lived by my ED. It's possible to recover when you have been to Montrose. I would definitely recommend this place to everyone. Julia (Holland)
I still remember the first day when I came to Montrose. I was terrified, and although when I arrived, I was welcomed by two very kind nurses that made me feel very comfortable, I didn't trust the team or the process and desperately wanted to go back home. After a while I got connected more to the community and I still remember that I was sitting on the couch by the fireplace and thinking: ''I actually like it here and feel at home''. That gave me a very warm feeling. I can now say that this was my best decision ever to come here. This place is so amazing. I never felt alone, even in the beginning. There are always the nurses you go to, to cry, or to just ask for a hug or to just tell your struggle. The counsellors are very professional and really know what they are doing and how to treat each person differently in order to get them into the best recovery. Even the kitchen staff. They are there every day and put so much effort and time to give us the best quality of food. I can tell myself that after my 8 weeks treatment here, I'm not there yet but I made a huge step closer to my normal life. It's time that I will live my life again and not let my life be lived by my ED. It's possible to recover when you have been to Montrose. I would definitely recommend this place to everyone.